Emotional Terrors in the Workplace: Protecting Your Business Bottom Line - Emotional Continuity Management in the Workplace

Minimum requirements should include:

NOTEBOOK TIP:  

If your team has a notebook that they can carry with them to a site, it needs pages that will be removable, pages that are covered with plastic sheet protectors, colorful enough so they can just grab-and-go out the door and not have to search for it under duress, blank lined paper for jotting notes, an attachable pen, perhaps even a backpack or carrying case that they think looks cool. The point of this is that during duress, your team needs to not have to think about anything but doing their work as calmly as possible. Looking for a bit of paper to write a phone number, or scrambling for a pen, is contraindicated for an Emotional Continuity Manager.

Start collecting data for an ever-evolving team notebook with reproducible documents, forms, logos, policies, plans, procedures, checklists, guidelines, resources, requirements, and anything your team decides would assist them in emotional continuity management during an emotional incident or disaster

Use the following pages to start your TEAM NOTEBOOK:

Disaster Emotional Continuity Management Checklist

PLANNING PHASE (prior to a disaster incident)

IMPLEMENTATION PHASE (during a disaster incident)

RECOVERY PHASE (after an incident)

BEFORE

Acknowledge - Acknowledge that there is a probability that at some time there will be a disaster that has an effect and consequences for your company

Brainstorm - Make a list of all possible disasters that could ever, even in wildest imaginings, touch your company directly or indirectly

Buy-on - Establish hierarchical buy-on for your company. If you company refuses to acknowledge the probability that there will be a disaster that has an effect and consequences for your company, dust off your resume and look elsewhere. Denial is not good business.

Plan - Create a list of partnerships, interventions, resources, policies, procedures, ideas, concepts, supplies , and contingencies for even the wildest imagined disaster

Narrow - Narrow down your full list to the top ten possibilities

Training - Get training for anyone who might be involved in any disaster, from the line staff to the authority players in key positions . Training can consist of a small pamphlet to significant formal education opportunities

Partners - Pre-plan partnerships with local, state, and federal responder agencies and private disaster industry professionals. Write memos of understandings, pay for retainer fees, and publish a list for everyone on your staff. You never know if you will be there to make the calls.

Normalize - Make disasters a normal discussion in meetings, and planning sessions as you would any other part of company business. Disasters are a "normal" part of life and need addressing in a coherent and open manner in the same spirit you would discuss the furniture in the office.

Learn - Although everyone is doing fine, this is an excellent time to seek more management training.

DURING

Self Care - It is always appropriate to take care of yourself first

Survive - Do what is appropriate to survive a disaster

Expect - Expect emotions of all forms, from immobilized screaming to hysterically funny giggling fits.

Remember - Recall the stages of grieving: Denial, Bargaining, Anger, Depression, Acceptance. Add to this blaming, resistance, minimizing, aggrandizing and emotional response and reaction surprises that you haven't anticipated.

Remind - Remind yourself and others that all disasters have a beginning, a middle and an end. Beginnings are easy, and ends are a relief. Middles are crazy makers and seem to last forever but they do not!

Learn - Although this is a difficult time for everyone, it can be an excellent time to seek more management training.

Review - Review the BEFORE guidelines and repeat what is necessary to stay on track.

AFTER

Manage - Remember that the disaster cannot be controlled, but you can manage through it. Face the changes and work through the transitions between the activity of the disaster and the end of the disaster when changes have been completed.

Expect - Don't be surprised. Encourage yourself and others to not ne surprised. There is no "going back" before the disaster, there is only moving forward after the disaster. Help people move forward.

Involve - Involve people in managing themselves and others. In disasters there is a tendency for people to either help others or become looters. Involve people in helping, even if it is a fabricated task like "we need someone to empty the wastebaskets." Busy people become more focused and feel more security. The rubric is that in an abnormal situation, it is helpful to do something that seems normal. Washing dishes, sweeping, dusting, organizing a phone tree, serving water, and other such banal and mundane tasks may keep people from sliding into an emotional abyss of helplessness. An employee who has "power and control" over the wastebaskets may feel less overwhelmed by the power of the disaster and may return to competent functioning more quickly.

Listen - Listen. Don't argue, discredit, disagree , or deny people their own perception of reality. People will adjust and recover in their own way at their own speed.

Okay - Human emotions are okay. Don't avoid or discourage emotions from your employees. If you feel uncomfortable with emotions find someone who isn't and gently direct people that direction. Do not block the healthy process of emotional recovery or it may come back on you.

Pay Attention - After a disaster the rhythm of work has fits and starts as it re- adjusts to its new flow. Try to move with it without resistance. See or feel it as a choreography with new dance steps. Two steps forward, one step back. One step forward, two steps to the side and two steps forward. Take your time. You will "feel" your new footing soon. Don't be afraid to ask questions or check your footwork from time to time. You don't want to step on toes, but you also don't want to miss a beat. Everything will be uncertain which will then be followed by what seems like rigid certainty which will then again decay into chaos as it moves back into a more resolved new form. Take your time. Take your time. The disaster is over now, you have time to figure it all out.

Insist - Insist on being in the loop for information sharing. If you are out of the loop your anxiety will increase and so will your employees' anxiety. It is better to say, "I don't' know, but I'll find out as soon as I can," than to say, "I have no clue" and leave people in the dark with no sense of leadership.

Communicate - Share information, listen, wait, exchange ideas, avoid rumors, seek facts, present facts, offer patience, peace , procedures and protocol.

Support - Support your people. Know they can handle information better than innuendo. People can handle ambiguity if they are in the loop. Waiting is very hard for most people under duress, so make a formal "what should we do while we are waiting" process. Put things in writing when you can. A quick-fix bulletin board for memos or messages is very supportive for groups of people. Expect people to be distracted. It might help to have a television in the office for a few days. Let people watch it while they are working. Put it in the center of the worksite and not the employee lounge. Don't make employees pretend nothing happened . That will make you look crazy. Expect random outbreaks of group talking when incidents change. Check up on people to find out if they are in the loop or feel like they are.

Open up - Acknowledge stress, yours and theirs. It's okay to say you are stressed even when you are in a management position. It gives you more credibility and makes you more accessible. This doesn't mean a crying jag with your staff necessarily , although tears do not destroy leadership potential. Don't hesitate to ask for help. Quick check-ins with employees, without getting deeply involved in their emotions is very helpful. It is called defusing and takes the edge off the emotions as a brief respite and release. Find a place where you can defuse also. It should not be with another employee that you are managing.

Debriefings - Create opportunities to debrief your employees. You can train your people to do it, find volunteers, hire professionals or consultants who have been specially trained in mental health disaster practices.

Avoid - Do everything you can to stay away from group blame-frenzy behavior.

Continue - Continue to communicate and move forward, check in with people to see if they are moving forward, or if they are beginning to lose ground and need a different kind of intervention.

Persist - Persist in assisting people who may need ongoing management support. During normal situations people need leadership. Before, during and well after a disaster people need to keep their focus through the well balanced position of leaders . Workers who may have lost capacity to work due to loss of technology or services that existed before the incident will need specific leadership to stay connected to the job.

Learn - Although this is a difficult time for everyone, it can be an excellent time to gain more training.

Review - Review the BEFORE and DURING guidelines and repeat what might be useful or necessary to stay on track. There may be another disaster in your future.

Lessons Learned - In the absolutely most intensely positive manner you can muster after all of this, review every step, BEFORE, DURING AND AFTER, with an eye of successes and areas that need improvement.

Celebrate - Celebrate your survival!

Memorialize - Plan ahead for the one year anniversary or remembrance moment of the event. Create an annual commemoration for your office. Delegate the task if necessary to someone who would benefit emotionally from the process of creating tribute.

Administrative Buy-On Evaluation

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How well does administration support the Emotional Continuity Management Plan?

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How well supported is the need to practice and drill for emotional emergencies?

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How extensive are the opportunities to drill for emotional emergencies?

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How financially supported is the Emotional Continuity Management Plan?

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How supportive is the administration about providing opportunities for training employees in emotional management?

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How supportive is the administration about creating cooperative partnerships with other emergency response agencies prior to a disaster or emotional event?

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How supportive is the administration about providing pamphlets, books, literature, posters , media education, and other hard-copy information on Emotional Continuity Management Planning?

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How well do personnel know what they should do in an emergency to caretake their emotions?

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How well prepared are you to manage emotions resulting from a catastrophic disaster?

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Emotional Continuity Management Event Hot Sheet

Fill out this hot sheet if there is an incident: (can be used for Drills)

How to Set up a Drill

  1. Establish full buy-on administratively

  2. Determine leadership

  3. Prepare with paper drills and table-talks prior to simulation drills

  4. Define the goals of the drill

  5. Develop appropriate and safe logistical settings

  6. Develop appropriate scenarios

  7. Create scenario assignments

  8. Consider management of a real emergency or unexpected event during the simulation

  9. Review plans and gather feedback

  10. Conduct the drill

  11. Collect results

  12. Celebrate the closure of the drill formally

  13. Debrief participants and planners without critique

  14. Planners then can evaluate the success or failure of goal achievements

  15. Add or subtract necessary components and schedule next drill cycle

  16. Send thank-yous to all participants

  17. What questions will you need answered to make good decisions?

  18. What resources will you need in each case?

  19. What resources will you activate immediately?

  20. What resources will you put on stand-by?

  21. How will you approach administration, employees, vendors and ancillary participants?

  22. What plan will you write?

  23. What policies for emotions will you want in place?

  24. What people with what qualifications will serve you best?

  25. What level of emotional impact will this possibly have?

  26. What risks will there be for solo or group emotional spinning?

  27. What tools will you use to manage the emotions of employees?

  28. How will you take care of your self as you participated?

  29. What would be the estimated costs of this for your company

  30. What would be the estimated costs for your company if it was unprepared for a real emergency?

Tips for Success of Drills

Clear Notifications - Always state "THIS IS A DRILL" when making phone calls or contact calls during the drill. Remember when Orson Wells read the story War of the Worlds on radio and some people really thought the Earth was being invaded by aliens . People are fun! And people are nervous. Our world is scarier than it was a few years ago. It is better to be cautious than to create more emotional impact. It is critical to inform and notify all players and anyone who might be concerned that this is not a drill.

Identification Tags - For the same reasons as above, and for ease in managing the Participants, all members should have visible and highly identifiable, temporary identification that is collected after the drill.

Time them well - A drill during a layoff phase is dangerous. A drill during an earthquake is pointless and dangerous.

Evaluations should focus on positive points - Negative critiques destroy buy-on. Attempt to phrase weaknesses and losses in positive " can-do -better-next-time" language.

Have fun - Simulations can be fun and exciting when people are motivated to do their best for the sake of everyone else.

Add a surprise - The unexpected is where drills show holes in preparation. Don't add anything extreme, but include a small twist to make it interesting.

Ask other experts to play with you - Go to your local fire department, hospital or chapter of the American Red Cross and ask someone to help you plan your drill.

Drill a full range of emotions - Include all feelings from small to large, annoyances to catastrophic.

Maintain the illusion - Encourage participants to maintain their acting roles until excused from the drill.

Explain exit strategies and ending calls - Inform your participants how they can exit the drill if it becomes distressful. Also inform everyone when or how the drill will conclude.

Debrief even when it is a drill - Make certain any individual who exits a drill have a mandatory debriefing to deter people who simply want to exit the process so they can go home early, and protect participants who may really have difficulty. This also gets people into the good habit of debriefing.

Pleases and Thank-yous - Courtesy goes a long way to create closure and future buy-on. Write a formal thank you letter to all participants.

Drill and Rehearsal Checklist

Additional steps:

Emergency Assistance Resource List

DISASTER CONSULTANT

EMOTIONAL HEALTH PROVIDER

MENTAL HEALTH PROVIDER

MEDICAL SERVICES PROVIDER

Local Contact Person:

WEATHER SERVICES

HOMELAND SECURITY (HS)

DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE (DOJ)

FEDERAL EMERGENCY MANAGEMENT AGENCY (FEMA)

DEPARTMENT OF ENERGY (DOE)

ENVIRONMENTAL PROTECTION AGENCY (EPA)

DEAPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES (DHHS)

U.S. DEPARTMENT OF TRANSPORTATION

DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE (DOD)

NATIONAL TRANSPORATION SAFETY BOARD (NTSB)

AMERICAN RED CROSS

LOCAL LAW ENFORCEMENT

FIRE DEPARTMENT

EMERGENCY MEDICAL SERVICES

PUBLIC WORKS

EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES

24 HOUR CRISIS HOT LINE

VOLUNTEER SERVICES ASSISTANCE ORGANIZATIONS

Salvation Army

Critical Incident Stress Management Teams

Spiritual Support Network

D'Mort (Death support)

Search and Rescue

Dive Rescue

Ski Patrol

K-Nine Search and Rescue

HAM Radio Network

WHAT ELSE WILL YOUR COMPANY NEED?

Sample Scheduling Form for Mandatory Meetings

( NAME OF YOUR DEPARTMENT)

Individual Meetings: Circle one : OPTIONAL MANDATORY

Wednesday, August 6th

 

12:00-12:30

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12:30-1:00

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1:00-1:30

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2:00-2:30

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2:45-3:15

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Thursday, August 7th

 

9:00-9:30

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9:30-10:00

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10:00-10:30

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10:30-11:00

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11:30-12:00

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Wednesday, August 23rd

( Only if prearranged with manager and consultant )

12:00-12:30

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12:30-1:00

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1:00-1:30

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