Emotional Terrors in the Workplace: Protecting Your Business Bottom Line - Emotional Continuity Management in the Workplace

Failing to manage or make policies and procedures for real human Emotional Continuity Management carries direct risk to an organization. Costs and overlapping streams of costs carry measurable financial consequences. From a mental health perspective it is always easy to rally around the human costs, emotional consequences, family systems difficulties and sociologic effects of mismanaged workplace feelings. The truth is that this is only half of the discussion. Emotions cost money, big money. The " touchy-feely " soft side of business has no leg to stand on if it does not put dollars to the test. Bottom line numbers count. And, all the soft information will be meaningless until everyone understands that emotions are financial risks. Number crunchers need to know about compassion, but the numbers matter. From a human compassion perspective numbers of dollars lost taking care of people should be irrelevant. But squishy sentiment does not keep the trucks rolling across the homeland. And if you want to have a celebration of human emotions, you need the trucker to bring the bread that is served up in the feast. No trucks means no bread! No bread means no celebration. It's all of us or none of us! The combination of fiscal risk and compassion risk blend together and become the real and measurable risks of avoiding Emotional Continuity Management.

Some of the Bottom Line Costs of Spinning

Fiscal

There are obvious and hidden costs associated with managing emotions at the workplace. There are costs like unaccounted health care dollars spent, counseling fees, lost vendors , clients who never pick your business because of the rude receptionist , pencils stolen and paper towels used by the obsessive-compulsive hand washer in the cubicle down the hall. A group hug isn't going to manage the fiscal risks of emotions at the work site. At the same time, putting emotions in a category that doesn't place real dollar risks on the small and large emotional spins of employees is shortsighted.

Risk Equation: Figuring the Exact Cost of Emotions in the Workplace

Your hourly salary times hours spent dealing with an emotional event, plus salary multiplied by time spent with the problem, plus the number of people affected by the spin times their salary times their hours lost, plus the salary of your boss multiplied by the time the boss who is now listening to you times the number of projected days/weeks until resolution, plus any additional ancillary costs such as FICA/taxes, services, customers lost, PR, training dollars, health care equals a number which reflects the literal cost of an emotional spin.

Case Example

A 6- hour management issue that was resolved in one day that affected 14 people for 6 hours. One customer was lost with a projected revenue stream of $4,000.00 a month=$133.00 daily (avoiding the notion that this company may have gotten the customer back, they lost only a day's revenue)

$18.00 x 6 clock hours + ($8.00 x 6 x 14) + ($38.00 x 6) + $133.00 + ancillary loss=$1,141.00 plus other expenses. That roughly works out to $190.00 an hour.

Learning Byte

Paying attention to the cost of your time managing emotions becomes a valuable resource in advocating buy-on for Emotional Continuity Management policy, training, seminars , procedures, drills, and readiness.

DO THIS: Do the Math

DON'T: Forget that every hour you spend managing emotions costs your company money.

Calculating the Costs of an Emotional Spin

Learning Byte

Risk Assessment Pop-Quiz: At what point does the financial loss of an emotional spin become a risk factor for your company?

DO THIS: Do the math.

DON'T: Ignore the math .

 

Case Example

These costs were accrued at one company over a two-month period. The company lost another twelve employees in the following eighteen months before this problem was arrested and a resolution process began . The resolution took over two years at additional costs for lost revenue, employees, trainings and consultations. (Descriptive details have been altered to protect confidentiality.)

Employee #1

Grievance: Employee-driven resentment about another staff member being assigned a new task

Outcome: Loss of this staff member to another institution

6 months severance pay

$36,000.00

 

6 months insurance premium

4,200.00

 

Accrued sick leave payoff

2,700.00

 

Replacement during severance time

39,000.00

 

Counseling

500.00

 

Consultation/Trainings

15,640.00

Total: $98,040.00

Employee #2

Grievance: Customer-driven complaint about poor customer services

Outcome: Staff member became angry and denied responsibility for poor customer services. Termination and loss of an external vendor

Accrued sick leave payoff

$ 5,000.00

 

Paid during suspension/investigation

4,440.00

 

Paid insurance during investigation

3,100.00

 

Legal investigation

6,500.00

 

Counseling

200.00

Total: $19,240.00

Employee #3

Grievance: Management-driven following vote of no confidence

Outcome: Manager did not feel competent and needed significant restoring of confidence to maintain standards of practice

Paid insurance during time off work

$ 600.00

 

Salary for time off

2,900.00

 

3 weeks severance

3,500.00

 

Counseling

350.00

 

Consultations

2,000.00

Total: $ 9,350.00

Additional expenses accrued (not included in totals):

 

Goodwill

Goodwill for most companies determines longevity. Goodwill is mathematically factored by historical data, expectations of the industry, trends, and mythological predictions of future business. Predictions are fantasies. Certainly some fantasies match reality quite closely, but until a crystal ball is invented, or businesses hire psychics as consultants and their numbers are verified and repeatable, goodwill is a hope, not a sure thing. Some businesses, physicians for example, attach a "goodwill" value to the selling price of their practices. They have built up a reputation and it is a valuable asset. Clients and customers are attracted or repelled by goodwill concerns. Customer service is the subject of very expensive trainings and policy meetings for businesses that make an effort to keep people coming to their company for products or services. When people do not come, the bottom line is not maintained . And people don't come if they do not like you. This is one powerful domain of emotions at the workplace that can easily be translated into lost revenue. Large corporations spend billions on convincing the public that they are the "good guys." Loyalties shift rapidly and one day the good guys are the bad guys and revenue dries up.

The loss of goodwill can span industries and revenue streams for decades. What does the word Columbine mean to you? What did it mean 10 years ago? What about the words World Trade Center, Tylenol, TYCO, Halliburton, Enron, Exxon Valdez, or Martha Stewart? The Titanic was pitched as the safest maritime product and service in the known world. The Titanic was sold as "unsinkable." Today the word "Titanic" is synonymous with loss. Some loss, like the Titanic, spans fiscal and goodwill costs for decades.

Case Example

The Halifax Herald (May 2, 1912) received the following information from the "Insurance Press" about some of the financial losses from the Titanic sinking. (Behe, 2004) Representations of the value of a dollar in 1912 would translate into significant expenditures at today's rates

Learning Byte

Very few companies today would use the word 'Titanic' to try to increase good will toward their company. More like performance art than business, the reputation of the show brings in the business. Goodwill is the ongoing "curb appeal " that makes the client energy flow toward and into your revenue stream. An emotional spin can redirect the flow to the extent that the goodwill moves elsewhere at an astonishing speed.

DO THIS: Consider goodwill as money on its way.

DON'T: Think people aren't paying attention to the smallest ripple of attitude.

 

Case Example

When the caf and bakery, The Petite Pan, opened in the small town, the locals were delighted with the homemade products and the beautiful atmosphere. They flocked to the site and quickly included the owners into the community. In an uncharacteristic gesture of inclusion the traditionally isolated and emotionally closed community saw the caf as good for commerce and local goodwill and the Petite Pan became the new place to meet friends and business colleagues.

Business boomed. The locals started sending their teenagers there for beginning jobs. The job turnover was surprising with the average length of employment under six weeks. It became a local joke and a point of competitive amusement , "my kid lasted five weeks," "well, my kid lasted six." No one questioned why and adults made a collective assumption that it was due to the incompetence of young workers with no skills and the money flowed into the caf from all directions.

It was Tina's first job and everyone was amazed that she lasted beyond the usual two months. After four months local adults began to praise her openly and asked her what her secret was. She innocently replied, "Oh, I guess I'm just not so bothered when the owner comes at me with butcher knives and screams at me or his wife and throws things at her. I know he's sort of insane so I think it's sort of funny ." Everyone was appalled and started asking their children what had happened to them. The teens shared their stories of violent tantrums between the owners that were often leveled directly at the children. The adults were humiliated that they had been so blind and had not protected their children. Business slumped dramatically. Word got around town quickly. No one sent their children there for part time jobs, no one was available to wash dishes, clear tables, or sweep floors and no one bought the baked products. The caf couldn't even sell day-old bread. The business failed within weeks. The couple filed bankruptcy and left town. No one cared.

Learning Byte

Goodwill came and goodwill left. This was a lose-lose situation for everyone involved except perhaps for Tina. Her reputation as a sturdy employee became a local myth associated with the former Petite Pan caf stories. Tina was hired by another company and locally celebrated as a "brave kid." She took that experience forward and was able to evolve it into a mature work ethic for herself. "I can work anywhere ," she would say, "after all, I survived the Petite Caf longer than anyone in town." Be that as is may, a manager or employee may get points for surviving an emotionally spinning workplace, but adults do not tolerate the same behaviors that untrained, entry level employees may accept. And, word of mouth is louder than ever with rapid speed information technology. There are no secrets that last.

DO THIS: Assume that everything is completely visible to everyone on the planet at all times and someone is keeping score.

DON'T: Ever forget that your next client is in the wings waiting to be either your client or someone else's client.

 

Liability

The history of litigation originally was intended to offer strength and support in holding someone to accountability. Today, it is more like a blame-and-gain game. It seems as though there is someone ready to sue someone right now because they wore the wrong hat on a Tuesday. Industries, businesses, employees and managers are at extreme risk for litigation through civil, criminal and personal liability suits . Emotions at the workplace, from extreme events such as shootings and criminal incidents to small events such as an implied sexual innuendo or racist comment, routinely end up in court. The hourly fees and retainers of legal advisors add significant costs to companies. A day in court could ruin a small business.

Managers can be blamed and scapegoated if they get caught in the middle of an emotional conflict. Personal liability in a company is an emotional and fairly political topic. The role of manager as he or she stands in the midst of in an emotional conflict is a dangerous place to be. Policies and procedures that are established to protect employees should be super- sized to protect managers. Employment Practices insurance is a growing industry and some managers are seeking personal liability insurance outside of any policy held by their company. Managers should be knowledgeable about if and how they are protected from liability.

Posturing and positioning during conflict can lead to verbal or physical threats and outright attacks. Threats of litigation are becoming more dangerous and powerful then real attacks. Legal saber-rattling from an adversary is intended to shift power so the other guy will back away first in compromise. This behavior creates emotional spin and launches future spins through implications of future terror. When managers know how they are protected from such threats they are in a better position to mediate a conflict. Managers who are afraid of being sued tend to lose their own emotional continuity if they respond from their own emotional, fear-based reactions .

When conflicts and power struggles exist it means that someone will win and someone will lose. Some battles need to be fought for justice and ethical standards; and many conflicts originate from people who only use litigation for the right reasons. There are others who use litigation or threats of litigation for the wrong reasons, to start or maintain a spin or to gain position and power. A manager needs to have total confidence that a superior or company will back them up, or support them, before they enter into a conflict or power struggle. This provides an atmosphere where the manager can feel protected and remain neutral and compassionate in the face of conflict. Rather than guarding and defending themselves or preparing their own attack, they can listen to emotionally laden content without fear. There are many models of non-violent and non-fear-based communications that can be learned to deal with conflict. And it is also a good idea to make sure having an excellent insurance policy to cover your bases.

Case Example

Marie always got A's in math. In 8th grade she brought home a D. Marie said that the teacher didn't seem to understand math and had a temper and would yell, "Hey, if you guys aren't getting this stuff it isn't my problem, you must be a bunch of retards." Marie's parent went to school and spoke to the principal and the teacher. The teacher emotionally escalated the situation and threatened to quit. The principal escalated the emotions by increasing blame toward the student and backed the teacher. The parent threatened litigation.

Learning Byte

Your clients take things seriously and so should you. Litigations are expensive and time consuming. Escalating conflicts and misunderstandings into litigation are not productive. Litigation should be used when there are significant issues, but not just to manage poor communication and power struggles. Have you had any experiences where you have seen power struggles turn into litigations? How much did they cost? What are legal fees per hour in your city?

DO THIS: Call several local attorneys and ask their fees per hour.

DON'T: Assume your company will cover your legal fees. Find out.

 

Global Consequences

What happens when a cow falls down on Christmas Eve? No, it isn't a children's riddle. A cow fell down in Washington State and within two months there was a global spin. In dairy communities cows are like cash. The idea that one sick cow could affect an entire ranch is less of a stretch to the imagination than thinking that a cow could launch a global economic disaster. A single cow at a ranch in Mabton, Washington led to a crisis in the international beef industry and sparked surprising risks in non-beef industries, created, public health scares, left citizens sorting out the realities from the rumors, and eventually became a college course at a university in Connecticut. The chronology of newspaper headlines from the Tri-City Herald, a local news source for the region near around Mabton, presents a fascinating picture of how one cow can create a global emotional spin in a short period.

Case Examples

(All Headlines From The Tri-City Herald, Kennewick, Washington; Associated Press; and other sources)

 

Case Example

According to Moneyline Telerate (February, 2004) stocks in Beef related restaurants have lowered while stocks in laboratories that test for mad cow disease have risen.

  • -9.9%

Tyson Foods

  • -4.7

McDonald's

  • -4.2%

Wendy's

  • -1.6

Smithfield Foods

  • -1.5%

ConAgra Foods

  • +24.8

Bio-Rad Laboratories

 

Case Example

Michigan based Thron Apple Valley Inc filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy after recalling 30 million pounds of possibly contaminated meat and poultry. (McLeod, D, Business Insurance, 1999)

Learning Byte

According to Donald Bryan, Chicago-based managing director of Marsh, the brokerage unit of Marsh, Inc., the following costs should be addressed for any estimation of the economic consequences of any product recall:

DO THIS : Review the mad cow examples presented again and consider each headline individually. Then consider how many people or companies might be influenced by each headline. Then consider how many people or companies might be influenced by those secondary and tertiary influences. Think in exponential terms.

DON'T : See any incident as an isolated event in the world market of today.

 

Case Example

Dear Dr. Hawkins-Mitchell: I wanted to tell you about the four ex-employees who were working in my office two years ago are still causing me untold financial grief . One employee was an associate medical professional, fresh out of school, and this was the first private practice experience. The others were two assistants and one receptionist. The ongoing lawsuits are defamation of character and malicious slander that are costing me financially , physically and emotionally. My reputation and personal integrity in the community have had irreparable scars. My dream of moving my successful practice into a teaching institution is nearly lost. My retirement is not an option currently.

When the new doctor, Dr. Shoola agreed to the buy-in of part ownership of the practice I accepted this as a good sign and moved forward with my projects. Less than two months into the association Dr. Shoola told me there was a family emergency out of state and had to go home to live. My shock was mixed with confusion when I filtered out the medical details of the emergency, which didn't totally correspond to true medical details, and stories about a "bad-break-up" with a former lover. Dr. Shoola gave me a one-month notice of leaving. During that last month, my lawyer encouraged me to have everyone in the practice sign a confidentiality agreement. Dr. Shoola refused to sign the agreement. The entire staff had been informed that the new procedures were for everyone's protection and would now be a mandatory policy for continued employment. Dr. Shoola refused to sign and understood that it would mean immediate termination. With one week to go on the one-month notice, Dr. Shoola was terminated . This led Dr. Shoola to create four behind-doors meetings with the staff. Dr. Shoola left the state for this so-called family emergency but returned frequently for meetings with staff. Dr. Shoola took complaints and fabrications to the State Quality Control Commission and made a formal complaint of mistreatment and accused me of alcohol abuse. Coordinating efforts with former staff and personal relationships, including my former spouse with whom I was currently in divorce proceedings , apparently used this "catastrophic and emotionally traumatic" termination for a personal agenda. The effects which continue, have been, to date:

It hasn't been a great year for my business. But if it hadn't been for the consultation we had last year, I suspect it would have been worse , because I would have taken it all personally . Now I am just approaching it as a very difficult a business issue, and not a personal emotional spin. Best Regards, Dr. Ryder.

Learning Byte

Emotional spinning is expensive.

DO THIS : Take the subject seriously without being afraid of it. Do the math.

DON'T : Stop adding the costs when the obvious spin ends. Continue adding costs beyond the event as they continue to evolve. Some costs evolve for decades.

 

Other Costs of Spinning

The Costs of Protecting a Human Life

According to Kip Viscusi of the Harvard Law School, the price of an American human life is approximately $7 million. He has researched what people would pay to protect themselves from death at work, and how much they will compensate for the increased risk of death on the job. (Viscusi, 2004)

Costs of War Away From Home

Reservists and soldiers who have been deployed to the Middle East for the War in Iraq and Afghanistan come home to problems. Their employers have problems while they are away. At the time of writing of this book, over 176,000 reservists and guard members are currently deployed overseas. The numbers change as many come and go regularly while the War continues to demand military presence. Some soldiers come home to jobs that have been reassigned or outright lost to someone else.

Nathan Isaacs, a news staff writer, reported that in Ohio, a reservist committed suicide claiming it was due to the loss of a promised promotion after he got home. (Tri-City Herald, 2004) Although there are laws that make it illegal for an employer to discriminate against a reservist, terminate their jobs, or relinquish seniority , not all employers maintain the highest standards. And the need for reservists may not diminish for some time. According to Isaacs, since September 11, 2001, the number of mobilized reservists has topped 364, 477 compared to 250, 000 during Desert Storm. One employment consideration with this war is that the length of deployment is much longer than ever before. When reservists return, after a long deployment, the world has moved on, and sometimes that means their jobs are gone. The Labor Department reports as of May 2004, that reservists have filed over 3,000 work-related complaints.

Case Example

Joe is a reservist and has been deployed to a secret location. He cannot talk about it to his wife Crystal. She is in counseling because they are having marital problems. Joe has been consumed with his fears of being deployed and Crystal has gotten a job. The children are in day care for the first time. Money is tight and everyone is anxious. Crystal's counselor asks if she is concerned about Joe's safety as he goes into harms way. Her primary concern is that she is having a difficult time at work and she wants out of the marriage before something happens. Joe returns and finds everything has changed. His wife is financially emancipated, his children are older, and his civilian job has been outsourced. He tries to explain to his former boss that he didn't want to go to the Middle East and really needs his job back. The employer isn't sympathetic thinking that Joe, as a reservist, wasn't like a real soldier, and must have had a choice. The couple files for bankruptcy and divorce.

 

Case Example

A nurse's unit was activated and deployed to Iraq. He was a reservist and had never thought he would be in active duty. He rose to the occasion and provided excellent combat-field medicine. He saw more than he had ever expected to see in his career at home. When he returned home he had to make a very difficult transition from combat/trauma emergency medicine to treating children with fevers, old people with the flu, and skateboarders with sprained ankles.

Learning Byte

Work transitions like this are difficult. Soldiers must learn to transition quickly in order to survive. When they return from active duty they may assume that their work sites or jobs have kept up with their speed.

DO THIS : Support your employees who serve in the military.

DON'T : Drop them on their heads when they get home. Manage them well by helping them manage the changes. If their jobs are gone, help them move forward. Soldiers understand the concepts of forward and retreat and re-group. But they also operate on "no man left behind!"

 

Reservists, who have transitioned from the expectations of the "weekend mission" to active combat status, have changed. Many of the jobs they left at home have not changed. The fit may not work now. And, unlike a pair of jeans someone has outgrown, the receipt for exchange may have been lost. (By either the soldier or the employer.) Great employers keep the receipt and help the soldier readjust to life back in the civilian sector. Great soldiers help their bosses get ready for that with such programs as Bosslift , a program to prepare employers to help reservists. Managers can help reservists and employers "keep the receipt" and prepare everyone for a thoughtful transition out and back. The ESGR ( E mployer S upport of the G uard and R eserve) can help managers do this well.

The formal mission of the ESGR is to "Gain and maintain active support from all public and private employers for the men and women of the National Guard and Reserve as defined by demonstrated employer commitment to employee military service" (ESGR 2004). A practical and powerful experiential program of support for soldiers and employers is found in the Bosslift Program. Bosslift is a program the helps soldiers explain the importance of their work, so their bosses can buy-on to the value of the work they will be doing when deployed. Bosslift trips are organized to link employers and soldiers for increased support of the military mission and the need for jobs to be protected by employers. The trips are meant to remove the image of "weekend warriors" from the minds of employers. Employers are taken on simulated air combat flights , exposed to training cases, visit flight towers , tour technical schools , and have the opportunity of compare planes and equipment as well as sitting in real cockpits during takeoff and refueling.

Costs of Wars on the Home Front

Costs that are Personal, Local, National, Global

Some incidents cross previously established boundaries and spin into each other. Rumors and innuendos can be at the bottom of a spin and what is seen in the final moments is only a reflection of the far-reaching consequences.

Case Example

US Airways Groups Inc. President and Chief Executive David Siegel, whose demands for cost cuts created animosity with union leaders , resigned from the nations 7 th largest airline. He led the company out of 8 months of bankruptcy. Union groups were critical of his leadership and called for his resignation . Trying to keep the company afloat with $1 billion cost cuts found labor groups balking. He will be replaced by Bruce Lakefield who has enjoyed better relations with labor groups. (Associated Press, April 2004)

Learning Byte

Who knows what really happened here except this dramatic outcome?

DO THIS: Pay attention as well as you can and know that you cannot know everything, even though you are expected to be all-knowing.

DON'T : Try to predict outcomes , but be prepared for possible complications and surprises .

 

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